You: I found something for the two of us.

Your partner: Okay, what is it?

Understand your relationship more deeply.

You each take one deep psychological assessment, on your own, over as many sittings as you like. Couplogy reads your answers side by side and writes each of you a private report, with things neither of you could have put into words.

You: Will you see my answers?

Couplogy: No. They see your personality and patterns through your scores; never a specific answer of yours, and never your commitment, your doubts or your sensitive answers.

One payment, not a subscription · Answer over several sittings, at your own pace

Your partner: So how does it work?

Three steps, each at its own pace.

You answer separately
Each of you on your own phone or laptop. You don't have to finish in one go: stop whenever you like, it saves wherever you are, and you pick up right there later.
Read side by side
Once you've both finished, Couplogy reads your scores in relation to each other: where you're close, where you differ, and the gap between how each of you sees the other.
Each of you gets your own report
Two private reports, one for you and one for your partner: a real portrait of you both, and a few concrete steps for this relationship.

This isn't a quick quiz. It takes time, so you answer over several sittings, at your own rhythm.

You: Which character am I?

Three short questions. A taste, not a diagnosis.

Each Couplogy character stands for a pattern. This game only knows four of them: four ways of moving closer and pulling away.

Question 1 of 3

You sent a message and your partner hasn't replied for hours. Your first thought?

Your partner: Show me a sample report.

A piece of Sara's report.

SampleSara's report · about herself, Nima and the two of them

You think Nima pulls away because he doesn't care.

Nima's scores say something else: under tension he needs distance to calm down, and on calm days the same person sits closer to you than you do to him. His distance isn't indifference; it's how he settles.

Need for distance under tension

A cycle that belongs to neither of you.

The more you push to talk, the more Nima pulls back; the further he pulls back, the more anxious you get. Neither of you is to blame. It's a dance you learned together, and it can change.

This week's step: a pause, with a time to come back.

Next time things heat up, Nima can say: “I need twenty minutes; I'll be back at nine.” He gets his space, and you know when he'll return. That one sentence breaks the cycle.

Sara and Nima aren't real. We wrote this piece so you can see the shape and tone of a report; yours is built from your own scores.

The full report goes much further: your strengths, the places worth watching, and the questions worth asking.

Your partner: Did it get this from Nima's answers?

Couplogy: No, from his scores. Not one specific answer of Nima's is in Sara's report.

You: What's this “two lines” map?

Two lines, one map.

Each of you is a line. Where the lines come close, you move easily together; where they drift apart, there's room for a good conversation, not a fight.

SampleYouYour partner

Need for distance: Apart: under tension one of you wants space and the other wants closeness. Room for a good conversation.

Your map is drawn from your own scores; no two couples have the same map.

You: Where our lines are far apart, does that mean we have a problem?

Couplogy: No. It means that's where a good conversation is worth having. Distance is an insight, not a verdict.

Your partner: Where does this come from? It isn't guesswork?

From research, not guesswork.

Couplogy is built on four well-established models in psychology, and alongside them it measures what research finds most strongly predicts relationship satisfaction.

Attachment: When you're worried, do you move toward each other or away.
Conflict style: How you argue, and how you make up.
Love languages: How you show care, and how you take it in.
The Big Five: The things that make you, you.

And the things that matter most:

Appreciation
Responsiveness
Trust
Commitment
Arguing and repair
Family ties
Money
Intimacy

Couplogy isn't a substitute for therapy or counselling; it's a good place to start understanding each other. If you're going through something hard, talk to a professional.

You: What if I say something just for me?

Your answers stay yours.

Your partner sees your personality and patterns through your scores; never a specific answer of yours, and never your commitment, your doubts or your sensitive answers.
Your report is yours; your partner reads their own.
No score or ranking is shown that anyone could be judged by.
Your data is kept safe and never sold; ask us and we'll erase it.

Your partner: How much is it?

One payment, for both of you.

Coming soon

We'll announce the final price at launch; whatever it is, it's once, for both of you.

The full assessment for both of you
A summary and a full report for each of you
Your partner joins free, with a private link
No subscription, no hidden costs; your reports stay, to reread whenever you like

You: I have a few more questions.

Ask away.

How long does it take?

It's a few short stations, and you're not meant to finish in one go. Stop whenever you like; it saves wherever you are and you pick up right there later. It takes time because it goes deep.

Our relationship is good. Is this for us too?

It's made for you. You don't need a problem to want to know each other more deeply.

How accurate is it?

The report is built from your own real scores, not from sentences that would fit anyone. Where the data isn't enough, it speaks with care.

Is this therapy or counselling?

No. It's a good way to understand each other better, not a substitute for a professional. If you're going through something hard, talk to a counsellor.

Can I start on my own?

Yes. Start yourself and invite your partner with a private link whenever you're ready. The full report is ready once you've both finished.

What if my partner doesn't answer?

We send them a gentle reminder. The report depends on both of you, because its strength is in putting your views side by side.

Is it in Persian or English?

Both. The assessment and the report are available in your language.

Your partner: Okay, let's go.

A better relationship starts with understanding it better.

Start on your own, answer over a few sittings at your own pace, invite your partner, and see what your relationship looks like on the map.

Start your relationship insight

One payment · Private answers · Two personal reports